<P>Why Its More Fun to Wed in the Philippines The Philippines rich and diverse culture can be attributed to centuries of colonisation and domination of foreign conquerors during ancient times. The beliefs and traditions, which continue to pass on between generations, differ from one place or region to another. A wedding is one of the many events that Filipi- nos celebrate and value. Lovers go through courtships and various pre-wedding practices before the day of the formal ceremony. Below are some of the rituals and traditions that make local weddings so exciting, fun and romantic in the Philippines. Courtship. This is where everything starts. Filipino male suitors express their admiration or affection for their loved one by reciting poems, writing love letters, and performing a serenade. Of these, the latter, locally known as harana, is the most popular form of ligawan (courtship) among Filipinos. Courtship in the Philippines is not just about visiting the womans house and/or bringing her gifts, flowers and chocolates. It may also mean serving and labouring for would-be in-laws. During the paninilbihan, the suitor performs household chores and tasks, such as chopping of firewood and fetching of water. He does this to prove his love, worth and sincerity to the woman he loves. Nobyo-nobya (BF-GF) Relationship. When lovers enter a formal relationship, both of them are considered an unofficial part of each others family. They are expected to support each other, especially when future in-laws request a simple favour. Marriage Proposal. Traditionally, the man wont ask his girlfriend will you marry me? Instead, he will utter, pakasal na tayo (lets get mar- ried). He will offer an engagement ring or any valuable possession as dowry (bigay-kaya or dote). Pamamanhikan. Next, comes the proposal where families from both parties meet at the future brides house. This is where the groom formally asks for the womans hand in marriage. During pamaman- hikan, both parties discuss, too, the details of the upcoming wedding and the date of the formal ceremony. Bachelorette Party. Before the wedding day, friends and family organise and hold a send-off party in honour of the bride-to-be. They call this despedida de soltera, a Spanish term, which literally means farewell to spinster- hood/singlehood. Unlike a typical bachelo- rette party, this Filipino marriage custom high- lights family ties. The bride and her family cele- brate with their close relatives and friends, as well as the grooms family, to honour their blessing for the marriage. Local wedding celebration styles differ accord- ing to region, values and tradition, religious belief and spiritual devotion. All these old tradi- tions stay largely the same today, except for minor modern tweaks, which allow them to keep up with the time. However, the weddings real essence remains: the declaration of love, respect and sincere intentions for each other. Local weddings in this Southeast Asian country align with its tourism slogan, Its more fun in the Philippines. Wedding and pre-wedding activities and ceremonies here are a great experience—full of challenges, yet worth cher- ishing forever. </p> <UL><LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/1/1/">Front-Cover</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/2/2/">Inside-Front-Cover</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/3/3/">Page-3</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/4/4/">Page-4</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/5/5/">Page-5</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/6/6/">Page-6</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/7/7/">Page-7</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/8/8/">Page-8</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/9/9/">Page-9</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/10/10/">Page-10</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/11/11/">Page-11</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/12/12/">Page-12</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/13/13/">Page-13</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/14/14/">Page-14</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/15/15/">Page-15</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/16/16/">Page-16</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/17/17/">Page-17</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/18/18/">Page-18</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/19/19/">Page-19</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/20/20/">Page-20</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/21/21/">Page-21</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/22/22/">Page-22</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/23/23/">Page-23</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/24/24/">Page-24</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/25/25/">Page-25</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/26/26/">Page-26</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/27/27/">Page-27</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/28/28/">Page-28</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/29/29/">Page-29</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/30/30/">Page-30</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/31/31/">Page-31</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/32/32/">Page-32</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/33/33/">Page-33</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/34/34/">Page-34</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/35/35/">Page-35</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/36/36/">Page-36</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/37/37/">Page-37</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/38/38/">Page-38</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/39/39/">Page-39</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/40/40/">Page-40</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/41/41/">Page-41</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/42/42/">Page-42</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/43/43/">Page-43</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publication/879/ednqpzlod/44/44/">Back-Cover</a></LI> <LI><a href="http://www.mzines.net/publications/879/x/sitemap.xml" target="_blank">site map</a></LI> </UL>

 

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